MAMA KSAFINAH KATE +27746244477 MARRIAGE SPELLS 1. Marriage Problem: Your husband doesn't appreciate what you do at home. His standard greeting as he comes in the door and glances around the messy living room is, "So what did you do all day?" You are irritated because he doesn't appreciate your hard work at home and in fact expects you to do more to meet his needs. Solution: Schedule time to talk with him alone. Before bringing up your feelings, listen to his. Tell him your goal is to be a good wife, mother, and family manager. Show him the Home and Property Department Checklist. Talk about how you can work together to make your home run more smoothly. 2. Marriage Problem: Your Husband spends too little time helping out with housecleaning, cooking, or caring for your children.